This is a Battle Cry....

Black Girl Pain. Smiles. Brown limbs. Dimples. Mangoes. Incense. Mosaics. Sun. Citrus fruits. Curls. Kinks. Coils. Brown in all its various forms. Mothers [the human kind and land kind]. Foods that make you sneeze when you're cooking them. Summertime in cold places. Cool breezes in warm climates. Balance. Contrast. Confusion.

Women are expected to be nice and sweet, to make other people feel comfortable. A woman who says ‘hey, I think there’s a problem here’ is being ‘negative.’ A woman who doesn’t smile while she’s being harassed is ‘humourless.’ A woman who prefers to stay focused on tasks is a ‘cold bitch.’ Significant gendering is involved here; women have an obligation to look and act a certain way and when they don’t, they need to be hassled until they do.

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i want to print this out and give this to my mother.

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Negative, humorless, cold bitch.

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GPOY

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Patriarchy is not men. Patriarchy is a system in which both women and men participate. It privileges, inter alia, the interests of boys and men over the bodily integrity, autonomy, and dignity of girls and women. It is subtle, insidious, and never more dangerous than when women passionately deny that they themselves are engaging in it. This abnormal obsession with women’s faces and bodies has become so normal that we (I include myself at times—I absolutely fall for it still) have internalized patriarchy almost seamlessly. We are unable at times to identify ourselves as our own denigrating abusers, or as abusing other girls and women.

—Ashley Judd, here.  (via thenewwomensmovement)

(Source: lexcanroar, via feministquotes)

msdanti asked: Thanks for the follow :)

My pleasure! You’re beautiful *tries to soak it all in* =]